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7. If you decide that you cannot maintain a relationship with them, they will probably not take it against you. As mentioned before, a romantic relationship is never their priority but one that is suitable for their lifestyle and career is always welcome.
8. If you want a trophy wife who will take a backseat in your relationship, then it is best you look for a different type of woman. Ambitious girls will want a man who will treat them as their equal. A partner in crime, not someone they must follow a step behind.
9. Most serious career women who have to struggle to the top only allow themselves 5 minutes to be emotional before they switch back to gangster-mode. Yes, tough career women know they cannot give themselves the privilege to become an emotional wreck for days on end if something goes wrong in their lives. The words “weak” and “vulnerable” are not in their vocabulary.
10. Since serious career women often earn enough money for themselves, they are not interested in how much you earn or what title you have. Their passion is triggered by what turns your mind on and what your passion in life is. They want to know if your inspiration and motivation in life matches theirs.
11. Busy go-getters won’t have the patience to wait for you. They will be honest if they like you but won’t waste time stringing you along just for the sake of having someone there. If you like an ambitious girl, make sure that you make your move before she loses patience and interest. Once that happens, they will be gone before you even realize that she had dumped you.
Reshma Saujani, the founder of Girls Who Code says that women need two skills to move society forward. “I need each of you to tell every young woman you know to be comfortable with imperfection.”
Watch her TED Talk below.
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