Better Of As Friends Not Lovers?
We love one other but we are not in love. Many friends end up becoming lovers or marry each other after many happy years of companionship. It is often regrettable for former best friends to become enemies after a split or divorce. Was this BFF-to-lovers feeling just mistaken romantic love? Being together often as friends can lead to other emotions such as lust or heightened emotions for romantic love.
Friendship is a good foundation for a lasting relationship, but a romantic union must also incorporate passion. Would you not be bored being a lover to your roommate? This is when extramarital affairs come in, not because your partner doesn’t love you, but due to the need for romantic passion.
Trying To Save A Relationship Instead Of Being Happy
If you have been in a relationship or married for quite some time, you may have shared assets, children, and extended family relations with in-laws and common friends. If you are trying to save a relationship because of external factors, then you might forget to focus on you and your partner’s happiness.
When one partner is unhappy, the relationship is bound to shatter sooner or later. If both partners become unhappy, it gets even worse. Sometimes it is easier to focus on your own happiness instead of trying to save a relationship, even if it means a temporary separation or divorce. How can anyone love a sad and depressed partner anyway?
Familiarity Breeds Contempt
Being too comfortable with each other and letting yourself go will not help to sustaining a happy relationship. Keeping the union exciting and interesting will take effort from both partners. Before you think that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, you might want to water your own lawn to make it greener and more pleasant to be in.
Giving each other space, especially after many years of constant togetherness can help a relationship. Get a new hobby that you or both of you enjoy. It is also important to have your own life and enjoy things that even your partner doesn’t care to be involved in. Doing something that you love will make you a happier and more confident partner. Many men find this attractive and intriguing. Create some magic while you do something that brings personal satisfaction and joy to yourself.
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